| Perspective
The world has been celebrating International Women’s Day on March 8, every year. I too received a number of messages on mobile from friends and colleagues, cheering and saluting the spirit of women; heralding her as the most beautiful creation of God—a complete package of innocence, care, warmth, passion, dedication, divinity and love, experienced in the varied roles of daughter, sister, friend, beloved, wife, mother, or sister. Sure, God created man before woman, but you always make a rough draft before the final masterpiece! (in a lighter vein)
Last Sunday I read a well researched article in DNA newspaper on ‘supermoms’, ‘fleximoms’, with numerous examples of dynamic women who juggle work, home family and manage their priorities effectively. But I am simultaneously reminded of other examples too of friends, neighbours, or maids who have failed in maintaining a balance and entire families are suffering. Ever thought, why is there such a difference between women and women?
In my opinion, it has nothing to do with women or men. It is an established fact that the most powerful forces of nature are the invisible ones—heat, sound, wind, electricity, gravity—just as the most powerful forces of humans (men or women) also are invisible—love, thought, desire, belief.
I’ll cite a story here to clarify: A boy placed an eagle’s egg in a hen’s nest. In due course of time the eaglet grew up with chickens—lived, acted and thought it was a chicken, and hence remained fenced-in chicken yard. Until the realization dawned one day that it was bigger and stronger and it had the urge to fly. The eagle began to believe it could fly, stretched its wings and tried hard, harder. Finally, it soared in the bright, blue skies as a symbol of courage, freedom and success. Because, it believed in its powers, capabilities and potential, which increased to match its belief!
Buddha taught, ‘All that we are, is the result of what we have thought’, or deeply believed in. The Bible says, ‘As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he’. Bruce Barton the noted author once stated, ‘Nothing splendid has ever been achieved except by those who dared believe that something inside them was superior to circumstance.’ Such great men and thinkers throughout history, cannot all be wrong!
So, what do you believe you can achieve? Should you wait for someone to show the mirror? It has to self assessment and self realization—in order to be sustainable. You need to decide—are you a chicken or an eagle?
Dr. Veena K. Arora
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